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Psychic Reading FAQ’s

Bernadette Carter Psychic Medium Chinese AstrologyHow accurate are your readings?

It’s important to remember that the information I give you at the time of your reading is based on what’s happened in your life prior to our meeting.

No matter what I tell you…what “predictions” I make…you have free will.

You have the power to make choices in your life as you see fit and any one of those choices could, tomorrow, change the outcome I told you about today.

Do you talk to dead people?

I do, indeed.

And the coolest thing is, they talk back to me!

Actually, they talk to all of us…I just listen reaalllll close!

A person who communicates with “dead people” is commonly referred to as a Medium.

However, it’s important to understand there is no such thing as a dead person.

When Gramma Ethel’s body gives out, her soul…her Gramma’ Ethel-ness”…has simply moved to an alternate reality with a different area code. She is, still, very much alive.

For some reason, ol’ Grams…and others in her area code…call me to deliver messages for them.

Think of me as the Afterlife’s Answering Service.

If I pay you for a reading, can you guarantee to connect me with my “dead” father, daughter, cousin, pet monkey, etc?

 

Absolutely not.

Again, those who’ve moved on from this reality are as alive as you and I are. Which means they still have free will.

In that, just as you and I think it’s annoying for someone to “assume” we should drop everything and pay attention to them or to do something for them just because they want us to right at that moment…well…the same holds true in this scenario.

Just because you decide to come to Wild Iris Books and get a reading does not mean Gramma’ Ethel or your pet monkey wants to pop in for a visit.

What’s more, I am not a séance-er. Meaning…I refuse to “summon” up spirits whenever I feel like it. It’s an infringement on their personal time and I won’t do it.

Not to mention which, spirit knows what we need and when we need it. Believe me, if Gramma’ Ethel or your pet monkey has something to say…they will say it.

However, they may not say it to me.

They may say it directly to you.

Are you listening?

Will you tell me something that will scare me…like when or how I or someone I love is going to die?

My personal and professional ethics dictate that I be compassionately straightforward.

I have promised myself and spirit, never to interpret the messages sent through me, rather, to deliver the messages in as pure a manner as they’re sent.

Since Spirit only comes from a place of pure love messages for you will always be with your greatest good in mind.

That being said, I know, very, very, very few psychics who’ve been told of an impending death…so it’s very, very, very unlikely I will tell you anything of the like.

What is a good Psychic Reading?

Oooo….this is the 64 Thousand Dollar Question.

I can give people so much and such specific information even I’m blown away but the person I’m reading wanted the ghost of Walt Disney to show up and sing “It’s a Small World After All”.

Clearly, the odds of that are allllllmost nil.

So, that person may be disappointed in the reading.

If, when your reading is finished, you feel encouraged, more peaceful, centered, focused and have received some usable information and guidance…this is generally considered a good reading.

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Avatar Image By: Bernadette Carter
Ohhh...ya' knooww...I'm your atypical Search Engine Optimization (SEO) Guru who moonlights as a professional ghost writer and psychic medium. I've also been known to work as a Creative Director and Project Manager on commercial web/blog related endeavors. My current obsessions are Chinese Astrology, the Chinese Zodiac and anything having to do with SEO! You can catch me on Twitter @ Spiritual SEO and on Facebook as Bernadette Carter!
Website: http://blog.wildirisbooks.com

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